By: Shlomo Vaknin, C.Ht Person and behavior describe different phenomena. We “are” more than our behavior. The idea that we are more than our behavior is a very profound idea. You could write many volumes about this from your own life once you unlock this insight. Let’s just look at how deeply... 

I saw this one long time ago, and today I watched it again. I think it’s an essential lecture, and hopefully schools worldwide will present this to students who are about to graduate. So, whether you’re a student or not, watch and learn:  Read More →

By: Shlomo Vaknin, C.Ht This is another exercise in submodality power. Many people use it to improve motivation or develop other valuable feelings. Try this one for some chore that you don’t enjoy doing, like cleaning or budgeting. The Godiva Chocolate pattern is a way to feed good feelings and motivation... 

I’ll share with you now a technique that works extremely well for me in the area of influencing others. It doesn’t even require a verbal effort on your part, just the courage to experiment. This is something I’ve been doing since I visited high school (from time to time). It turns out,... 

By: Shlomo Vaknin, C.Ht Talking to influence another has just gotten even better. This time around we’ll take that incredible method of talking to influence with hypnotic stories containing nested loops, and we’ll loop it once more, within itself. I would really recommend you to study it...